What happens when the school that once seemed perfect suddenly isn’t working anymore?
In this episode of the Homeschool Connections Podcast, host Kaitlin Zara sits down with author and speaker Rachel Bulman to talk about her family’s decision to begin homeschooling during the middle school years—and why making the switch midstream was one of the best decisions they ever made.
Rachel shares the real story behind leaving a rigorous charter/IB environment, how “deschooling” helped ease the transition, and what she learned about her children’s learning styles once they were home. She also offers practical encouragement for moms who worry about rigor, socialization, and structure—especially when homeschooling wasn’t part of their original plan.
If you’ve been thinking about homeschooling (even if it’s midyear), this conversation will give you clarity, peace, and confidence to take the next step.
Show Notes
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Meet Our Guest: Rachel Bulman
Rachel Bulman is an author, speaker, and homeschooling mom who began homeschooling her children during the middle school years after discovering that their rigorous school environment wasn’t providing the support, communication, or enrichment her family needed.
In this episode, Rachel shares her family’s honest journey from traditional schooling into homeschooling—and the spiritual, emotional, and practical blessings that followed.
In This Episode, You’ll Hear
- Why Rachel’s family chose to homeschool during middle school
- The role “deschooling” played in helping the transition go smoothly
- How homeschooling revealed each child’s unique learning style
- How to create rigor at home without copying a school model
- How her children stayed socially connected without daily classroom interaction
- Why intentional friendships are real-world socialization (not a “homeschool weakness”)
- The biggest challenges: accountability, motivation, and consistency
- The greatest blessing: forming virtue, responsibility, and real family life skills
Links & Resources
- Rachel’s website: https://www.rachelbulman.com/
- Rachel’s books: https://amzn.to/4bFNtgD
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rachelbulman
- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rachelbulman
Helpful Homeschool Connections Blog Articles
- Deschooling: https://homeschoolconnections.com/how-to-deschool/
- How to Start Homeschooling Midyear: https://homeschoolconnections.com/how-to-start-homeschooling-midyear/
- Middle School Articles: https://homeschoolconnections.com/category/middle-school/
- Unschooling Articles: https://homeschoolconnections.com/category/unschooling/
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If this episode encouraged you, please like, subscribe, and share—and remember, you are not alone on this homeschooling journey.
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